Living Together

Living together. If you share bills or any of those things, this is a factor that will obviously affect the decisions that you make. a lot of people get so caught up in the excitement of a new relationship, that they rush things. our whole world moves so fast now. It doesn't matter how you choose to life, the tone remains the same. just hurry up and live already! People, especially ones we care deeply for are not objectives to complete. that is what video games are for.


The other side of this conflict is the insecurity that develops when people are in different places. How many of us have lied to a loved one and said "I love you too" because it was easier than saying, 
"You really mean a lot to me, but I'm not there yet. I have my own insecurities and trust issues that don't have anything to do with you, and I'm working really hard to let them go. This relationship means a lot to me" 

I don't know what made me do it, but the first time in my whole life that I was open and honest like that made me the happiest I've ever been. 

To view this from a different angle, how many of us have met this kind of rare and pure honesty with hurt feelings and a lack of understanding. How many of us take things too personally. Its in our nature to think that the world revolves around us and the sun shines out of our own backside. Naturally our first instinct is to assess the damage to ourselves, before thinking about anyone else. Simply put, the more aware we are of the things we do, the more we learn about ourselves and develop into the people that we want to be. Nobody should expect someone to be exactly who they need, when they don't even know themselves yet.