What love has to do with it.

Consider this a Part II, to my last post, Hitchin A Ride...

Love to me is a level of comfort and sharing and honesty that I can't have with anyone else. The patience and stamina for driving each other completely insane occasionally, while still not being about to sleep alone. For me, a wedding would have to be the ultimate gesture of expressing what someone means to you. Whether you believe in love, or you don't, I believe we should marry someone when we realize we don't want to have a life without them. The trick to that is, being secure and honest enough to find the person who truly makes us that happy.If we can do that, I believe we never stop wanting to be together.

Divorce has never been the problem, and I need to have this rant.
Everyone has dated that child of divorce who says their against marriage.
Shut up.
You're parents weren't right for each other, and that is a shame, But you're not them. and generalizing women just proves your intimidated. Don't put anyone through your ringer of insecurity. Grow up, Get over yourself. You're insecure and you need to work out your own issues
What's worse is you're not original.
Every Tom, Dick and Harry is so fast to tell you that 60% of marriages end in divorce.
My point of view is that at least 45% of marriages never should have happened.

Take marriage a little more seriously. People get excited in the honeymoon phase of their relationship and think their in love. 3 years later they have a kid and a miserable spouse. Even worse than that is getting married because you find out you're pregnant...DON'T ACCIDENTALLY GET PREGNANT?! be smarter. use condoms. get on the pill. do whatever you have to. There is nothing more disgusting than a shitty clueless parent raising their kids to be just as shitty and clueless. JUST BE SMARTER.
For starters are you both being honest about who you are and letting your partner get to know the real you? If you're not honest in your relationship chances are it
will end in the future. You getting married or bring kids into the world while you try to force a defunct relationship is not going to change the two people that you are. it's just going to involve innocent little people who never asked to get screwed up by your bullshit.